THERE'S ALWAYS A WAY
...it just takes some of us longer than others!
"Nicky, your life has been a blo**y disaster, but we love you anyway..." so pronounced my late Aunt-in-Law as she sat beside me at dinner. Comedy is truth and pain. There is treasure in misadventure, a comedy writer's goldmine in my journey. For example, I've had a problem with my name 'Nicky' Slater, with my identity, stature and with 'real life' generally. Therapy and Self Help courses cost thousands. Alternative 'Nick Name' personas developed to enable my search for freedom and the courage to step. My parents were Ice Dance Champions - so I was too, entertaining on TV, in arenas, ice rinks and theatres. Trouble is I never chose ice. There was more. Busking in Ipswich, England, in the rain, for £1.05. Ha. So now finally it's time for me to stop hiding out and take the LID OFF THE BOX of my life. It's time to be MAKING CRAZY WORK! This page exolains soime of that journey.
Welcome to Lid Off The Box Entertainment. This is my Media Development site. Here - I am Making Crazy Work...
I've been known as Nicky Slater and was a British Champion, 5th ranked in the World did two Olympics. I was lost, climbed the wrong ladder. I never chose that path, nor that name.
Sport focus saw me lacking social & life skills. After leaving the bubble fear has plagued me. I now seek to redress this, win back lost time and encourage others with what I discover.
It's about taking the Lid Off The Box of life, and learning to keep it off. It's about freedom..
So. How do we find who we were made to be? how do we find the courage to pursue this? How do we perform at our best? How can we maintain hope on the journey and be free of lies that bind us? How do we Make Crazy Work...
The answer - for me - starts to breathe here in songs & stories, characters & brands, a new 'Breakthrough Framework' and a DREAMTRYB to come. Work developed over twenty years.
There's always a way...
I have come to realise that my journey is a daily investigation into how I can find the courage to overcome fear. Because daily, fear comes to call... What MIGHT happen? And because I work alone - as an artistic creative soul - I am 'perhaps' more susceptible to this battle of the mind? And a friend says - the world these days (as on Social media) does not do kind. My Sister in Law says she has seen 'kind Tweets' turned into toxic discussions. I am not used to this world at present. And I was killed on Twitter earlier this year with a friend on National and International News feeds after one day of work! After being off grid for five years! So I have some observations on this to come... And for some my battle is ridiculous. Most times I can see it is crazy too. So a part of LID OFF THE BOX in the NICKY SLATER PRESENTS section is my place to document and share this enquiry into overcoming my fear and getting on... THe rest of LID OFF THE BOX goes on regradless of my navel gazing and endless processing!
THE ARTIST REACTS TO THE FRAME
This website is a template I have been designing into. The artist reacts to the frame.
I re-did for the eleven millionth time the words above and explained my rationale to my wife and son this morning.
My boy contributed, when I had explained about the need to pithily explain what I am about; "You have a Masters in Marketing, why can't you just say:
You're making music to make people happy? If you hadn't done everything else you'd be doing it now..."
Maybe everything else is my avoidance strategy? Discuss. Or stop discussing and just do some music! Indeed...
DON'T SHOW WEAKNESS
I nearly removed this section... Why? Because it is not assertive nor confident and as such it is open to derision. And I am advised that - in today's media world - to show any weakness invites attack.
Yet it is truth... it is uncensored wisdom and it is is helpful to promote thought and action. And maybe someone else reading this might take some message of encouragement from it.
Daily in the small amount of media I consume I see life and death. I am for life. I believe we should have principles that include: Thou shalt not kill, and apply them. If we do not have this what type of a society are we? And in our SEO age and title tattle tweeting world the detail of - well do you mean animals as well? No. Human beings. And so here it is - You can sense the wave of disdain, angst, attacks that comes your way from the various groups and interests. Killing Birds. How do we stand in this world? I do believe it is a question of life and death and one I seek to address for myself here...
: mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty*
an unpleasant often strong emotion caused by anticipation or awareness of danger*
to deprive of life: cause the death of*
desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment*
firm belief in something for which there is no proof*